PRAYING IN THE HOLY GHOST By NORMAND J. THOMPSON
IMPRINTING INFERIORITY By ELSIE BOLTON EZZO
I NEED MY CHURCH FAMILY By ANONYMOUS (SINGLE LADIES)
SOUR GRAPES By RICHARD G. CHAMPION
HOW TO BE A PARTNER WITH GOD by By R.D.E. SMITH
THE EARLY DAYS RECALLED
HOW MUCH DO WE LOVE? By JOE D. WILMOTH
WHOSE APPROVAL REALLY COUNTS? By RICHARD D. DOBBINS
SOAP OR SLIME? By LARRY HATFIELD
QUENCHING THE DIVORCE EPIDEMIC By J.P. McCAMEY
ARE YOU LISTENING? By JAMES K. BRIDGES
FRESH LESSONS FROM A TODDLER By BILL CARMICHAEL
RECYCLED "EVANGELS" By NORWIN HUTCHCROFT
RUTH THE GLEANER By VIRGINIA L. SCHNEIDER
FOUR CHURCH MEMBERS By DAN BETZER
THE STORY OF THE BEGGAR By SCOTT HAGAN
"ONE OF THE MOST THRILLING messages of encouragement to the born-again, Spirit-filled person is found in
How often distraught men and women seek the pastor's help with such crucial personal problems as: "I know God can heal me, but...." "My son is out in sin, and I've prayed and prayed, but...." "Oh, how can I get more faith?"
Jude challenges our faltering faith with a remarkable remedy. Simply and boldly he states that our grain-of-mustard-seed faith will be adequate to the mountain-moving job if we pray in the Holy Ghost.
R.A. Torrey believed that praying in the Holy Ghost means to pray as the Comforter, the One who "leads us into all truth," inspires us and guides us to pray. As we pray, the Spirit reveals to us God's desire, so that we can be sure we are asking according to His will and that our petition will be granted. Torrey said, "The Holy Spirit makes God's presence real to us. He gives us that intense earnestness in prayer that prevails with God."
Equally challenging as Jude's is the arresting statement of Paul to the Corinthian church: "I will pray with the Spirit, and I will pray with the understanding also." This plainly indicates two ways of praying.
Praying to God in tongues is a miraculous, supernatural means of communication, a gracious gift bestowed by heaven on the believer. Often the one praying in tongues does not know what he's praying about; neither do others.
Smith Wigglesworth wrote, "You have the same power to pray with your understanding (in your own language) under the unction of the Spirit as you have to pray in tongues." Even before we receive the gift of tongues, the Holy Spirit is present to help us pray. But after we receive the gift of tongues, our prayer life is even more fruitful.
Jude's testimony is corroborated by Paul's declaration "He that speaketh in an unknown tongue edifieth himself"
Years ago I visited Charlie Young, a member of my men's Bible class, who was very ill. Painful boils in his ears had rendered him quite deaf. Because of this, conversation was almost impossible, even though I shouted at him. At last I suggested prayer, and we knelt together.
I rose from my knees frustrated and grieved because he still could not hear. As I prepared to leave, the Holy Spirit led me to lay my hands on his head. I did so, and words poured from my lips in a language I had never learned. I could feel something like electricity in my hands that made them tingle. Tears were streaming down Charlie's face.
"Lift your hands and praise the Lord," I instructed him. "You re healed!"
Charlie did so, and heaven came down to bless our souls. We laughed, wept, and embraced each other. Outside, I turned back to ask, "You can hear now, can't you, Charlie?"
He wiped tears of joy from his eyes. All he could say was, "Glory-glory-glory!" But he could hear.
In Romans Paul tells us that the love of God is shed abroad in our hearts by the Holy Ghost. Not only does the Spirit reveal Calvary's love, but He gives us a Christ-like compassion for sinners, backsliders, the sick and afflicted, the poor and needy.
To pray "in the Spirit" the believer must keep filled with the Spirit. This will keep a song of praise in his heart and thankfulness upon his lips
Some months after my experience with Charlie Young, I became a pastor. A peculiar condition developed in my prayer life that kept me awake nights. Day after day as I prayed in the Holy Ghost, I was startled to hear the Spirit speak one word of English- Lena. It was the name of an unsaved young lady who had helped my wife several years before. She now lived in another town, and we had not seen her for years.
One Saturday I said to my wife, "Let's go see Lena. I feel that she is in trouble."
"What makes you think so?" she asked.
I explained my experience in prayer. Since my wife was very busy, she suggested that I take the evangelist who was with us in meetings. When we arrived at the town 40 miles away, neither Lena nor her sister Vivian was home. Their mother was surprised and a little frightened when I explained the reason for my visit. She confessed that she couldn't "do anything with the girls."
Two weeks from that day I preached Vivian's funeral! She was killed in a car crash at an intersection within sight of the lighted cross on our church.
Lena was deeply moved. She began to attend our Sunday services, driving the 40 miles to church each week. A few months later she gave her heart to God. Finally she became our Sunday school superintendent, a very faithful and efficient officer.
If we are to enjoy the benefits and blessings of power with God, we must be fully surrendered to Him. We must shut out all worldliness and be shut in with God. We must be led by the Spirit in our prayer life. We must not neglect the Word of God, which is Spirit and life.
"Praying in the Holy Ghost" is not restricted to the pastor or evangelist, but is the privilege of every Spirit-filled believer. Since the gift of tongues plays an important part, every layman should by all means press in to receive this gift from God.
In his well-known book Ever-increasing Faith, Wigglesworth illuminates this matter of the gift of tongues. He says, "After receiving the baptism in the Holy Ghost, I didn't speak in tongues again for nine months. This troubled me because I was laying hands on people to receive the Holy Ghost, and they were speaking in tongues; but I did not have the joy of speaking myself. God withheld this gift from me to show me that the speaking in tongues when I received the baptism was distinct from the gift of tongues which He gave me nine months later. He knew I would meet many who would claim that the baptism of the Holy Ghost can be received without speaking in tongues, and others would say the gift of tongues is received at the Baptism."
He went on to say, "It is not a luxury to be filled with the Spirit� but it is a must, a divine command...."
What a wonderful church we would have if all the members, filled with the Spirit, practiced praying in the Holy Ghost! We would witness a glorious revival of first-century Christianity! Then the prayer of faith
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"Do not pray for easy lives, pray to be stronger men.
"What effect does name-calling have on a child? What does it do to his sense of worth and self-confidence?
A mother in a church nursery screamed at little Johnny when he spilled his juice on the floor: "You stupid, careless dummy!" Then she yanked him out of the chair and spanked him soundly.
The child burst into tears and ran to the corner sobbing.
Are you guilty of calling your children derogatory names such as "lazy, good-for-nothing brat?" Do you say, "Shut up"; "You'll never amount to anything in this world"; or, "You haven't got a brain in your head?"
A boy in a first grade class called a girl a bad name. When corrected by the teacher, he seemed puzzled and said, "But my mother says it all the time!"
Unthinking parents can easily imprint a sense of inferiority upon the personality of a child with this kind of language. If the derogatory language continues through childhood and into the teen years, the child may conclude he has little intrinsic value and will suffer the effects of a poor self-image. This can seriously affect his personality growth, mental development, and spiritual relationship with God.
My husband and I tried to build a feeling of worth in our three sons. We took time to watch their Little League games, supervise their homework, and take them camping.
When one of them was struggling in school, I told him, "I know you can do the work. You need to apply yourself to the job and stop your day dreaming." Although it took many years, the message finally got through. Since then he has earned a master's degree in physics and has become a physicist in a reputable company.
John M. Drescher, in his "Checklist for Fathers," wrote: "If I were starting my family again...I would express words of appreciation and praise more often. Many children seldom hear words of commendation and encouragement when they do a job well or exhibit good behaviour...Probably no other thing encourages a child to love life, to seek accomplishment and to gain confidence more than proper, sincere praise- not flattery, but honest compliments when he does well..."
Drescher continued: "In listening I would pay more careful attention to my child's questions. It is estimated that the average child asks 500,000 questions by the age of 15. What a privilege for every parent� unlimited opportunities to share something about the meaning of life and about your own dependence upon God!"
In building their children's character and sense of worth, parents need to draw heavily on the Word of God.
After wrestling with God to give her a child, Hannah was given the promise of a son. When he was born, she called him Samuel, which means "asked of God." As a godly Jewish mother, Hannah taught him the Word of God. This, along with God's call, prepared Samuel for a life dedicated to God's work. All through his life Samuel was reminded of his name; that he was God's property; and that he was answerable to God for his life and conduct.
Haveman, Wolfe, and Finnie wrote in The Vulnerable: "Children's wellbeing has important life-cycle consequences. The productivity and attainments of adults rest on their well-being as children and on the investments their parents and society generally have made in them during their formative years"
Just as we put money in the bank for emergency and project uses, so we need to invest wisely in our children. Build up their worth and train them in the principles of God's Word. The dividends will pay off with children in whom you will delight, and a generation that will reap the blessings of God."
Elsie Bolton Ezzo was an Assemblies of God minister. She and her husband Domenick pastored First Assembly of God in Utica, New York.
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Life has many choices-
"A divorcce pleads
My sins have been forgiven, just like yours. But some of you don't seem to want to forgive me. God's Word tells me I am a new creation
Maybe it's because you don't understand me and my circumstances. Or maybe it's because you didn't respond to me when I came looking for friends and fellowship. I didn't let that stop me, however, and I kept coming back to church.
Think of the divorced women in your congregation. Then let me ask you these questions: Am I faithful in my attendance? Are my children with me? Do they sit with me during service? Are my children well-behaved? Am I friendly and willing to do what I can to help others and our church?
Now consider the married couples with children. Can you get the same answers to the same questions about them?
I know we all have hectic lives. Like many married women, I work outside the home. When I get home from work at night, like others, I'm tired. But once I'm home, I must face another day's household chores plus the kids� alone. That means singlehandedly seeing to ball practice, music lessons, school activities, and church outings. Plus we try to find time to pray and share what is going on in our lives. All this in the midst of laundry, housework, and keeping the car and house in good repair. It's discouraging.
Then there is the matter of finances. I have been told I need to save money. How? Most of us work for small wages. Many times we do without child support, or we receive very little. In some instances we also have to pay child care. Is it any wonder I can't afford a lot of new clothes or attend many of the women's functions, because of time and money restrictions?
Please remeber that some of us have been alone a long time- years- with the children. It takes hard work and courage to raise kids alone.
Don't assume I'm OK. No one is always OK. I need friends, too. Sure, you greet me in church; then you tend to go off to your group of friends. You are always together. Then I see you embrace new families- married families- that come into our church.
I do find I spend time with other divorced women in the church who have experienced the same things I have. But if you would just take the hand I have extended to you, I think you would be pleasantly surprised to find I am friendly, bright, and eager to be a friend. I need my church family.
I am so happy to be forgiven. My life was really gone when Jesus came in and set me free. I come to church to fellowship and praise, worship, and learn about our Lord as we are told to do
Please look past my circumstances and see me. I want to get to know you better and share your life too. I'm trying to reach out to you. Will you give me a chance to be a friend?
Jude 20: "But ye, beloved, building up yourselves on your most holy faith, praying in the Holy Ghost."
(1 Corinthians 14:4). To edify means "to build up," just as edifice, from the same Latin root, denotes a building. How wonderful that God, in His love and wisdom, has provided the Spirit-filled believer with this method of approaching His throne to augment his faith and to build himself up spiritually!
(Ephesians 5:19-20). A Spirit-filled man is a prayerful man, and his prayers, activated by the Holy Ghost, are golden keys to unlock heaven's treasure house.
In Acts 1:8 Jesus promised, "Ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you." This promised power was poured out at Pentecost, and the amazing history of the Early Church was written by the Holy Ghost.
In Acts 6:5 we find a layman, Stephen, "full of faith and of the Holy Ghost." Three verses later he is described as "full of faith and power."
(James 5:15), signs following the believer
(Mark 16:17-18), and faith, power, wonders, and miracles
(Acts 6:8) would make the mighty impact on this evil and apostate age that God intends His church to make."
THE PENTECOSTAL EVANGEL, JANUARY 23, 1972, pages 13-14
Do not pray for tasks equal to your powers,
pray for power equal to your tasks."
-Phillips Brooks
By ELSIE BOLTON EZZO
PENTECOSTAL EVANGEL, OCTOBER 28, 1990, Number 3990, pages 10-11.
Eternity has two:
What's yours?
By Anonymous
I am the divorced woman in your church. I cannot speak for the others who are divorced as to when or why it happened. I was given no choice because of my circumstances, and I accepted Jesus alter I was divorced.
(2 Corinthians 5:17) and God is no respecter of persons
(Romans 2:11). God does not condemn me
(Romans 8:1). Sometimes it seems the world offers more acceptance and forgiveness than the church does.
(Hebrews 10:25). And He gave me a love for others I didn't know was possible.